Openers and follow-ups

Conversation starters that do not die after "hi"

Most dating-app chats end after two messages because the opener gave her nothing to work with. A good starter is specific, easy to answer and a little fun.

Openers built from her profile

Is that photo from Gokarna? I have been trying to decide if it is worth the trip.
Your prompt says you make the best biryani. Bold claim. Which style?
You have a dog in three photos. I need his name before we go any further.
You picked "travelling" and "staying in" both. Which one wins this weekend?

Questions that keep a chat going

What is something you are weirdly good at?
Best thing you ate this week?
Mountains or beaches, and you can not say both.
What are you watching right now that you would recommend?
What does a perfect Sunday look like for you?
What is a small thing that always makes your day better?

How to start a conversation with a girl on an app

Open with something from her profile, not "hi" or "hey".
Ask one question at a time.
Share a little about yourself when you answer hers.
After a few good messages, suggest a call or a short plan.
If the chat slows down, let it go. No guilt-trip messages.

Questions

What is a good first message on a dating app?

A comment on something specific in her profile, ending with an easy question.

How do I keep a conversation going?

Ask open questions, answer hers with a little about yourself, and move to a plan once the chat is flowing.

Is "hi" a bad opener?

It is not rude, but it gives her nothing to reply to. A specific opener gets far more replies.